By ADDitude Magazine
10 ways for protective parents to step back and allow their ADHD Teens to Grow..
I saw Donny for an evaluation shortly after his eleventh birthday. Like many parents, his mother, Christine, reacted to his diagnosis with mixed feelings: sadness that her son was not “perfect” and that the attention deficit disorder (ADD ADHD) wouldn’t go away – and concern about the implications for his future. She hoped that the treatment plan we devised – a combination of academic accommodations, therapy, and medication – would improve their day-to-day lives. Mostly, she was determined to do whatever was necessary to help her son.
Christine became the boy’s champion, protector, and advocate. She coordinated with Donny’s teachers, school counselors, soccer coaches, piano teachers, and the parents of his friends to make sure that they understood his needs and treated him fairly. She attended IEP meetings and helped shape his academic plan. Morning, homework, and bedtime routines were established to structure life at home. The bottom line? Donny thrived.
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