Parents Universal Resource Experts – Sue Scheff: Troubled Teens and Residential Therapy

As the school begins back in session in many areas of the country, some parents experienced some difficult times with their teenagers during the holiday break.  Many of this behavior only escalated with the extended “free” time, as other parents were hoping and praying things would get better as their teen spends more time with their family.

Some families planned out of town vacations, removing the teen from the environment that they believe is causing the negative behavior.  Some parents believed that simply being home and with the festive holidays their teens will slowly come back to their childhood selves.

For those that have reached a point of seeking outside help, this can be one of the most difficult decisions a parent can make.  It will come after seeking all local resources, even trying to have  your teen live with another family member, however unfortunately, you can change environments, but it usually won’t change whatever issue is causing the negative behavior.

Let’s assume you have attempted local therapy, support groups, even out-patient therapy (some have even tried 24-72 hour in-patient) determined there is something wrong that possibly a little pill can help. However it has been my experience that in many cases, until you address the internal issues, these short-stop and/or pit-stops are usually band-aids.  This is not saying medication won’t help if your teen is appropriately diagnosed.

Now we are convinced that residential therapy is our last resort.  After getting over the sticker shock, you soon realize the confusion of the Internet.  The keen marketing, beautiful websites, and programs so far away!  You are at your wit’s end, desperate, confused and just want to get your teen help – stop, think, and do your homework!

Here are some helpful tips in searching for the right program for your teenager: Click here.

Watch video and slideshow – click here.

Don’t be a parent in denial – you could risk your teen not getting the help they need.  If you are thinking about threatening Military School to your teen, think twice.  Many parents are under the misconception Military Schools are for at-risk or troubled teens.  If your teen is extremely defiant, using drugs (even just experimenting), or simply doesn’t want to attend Military School, chances are, he won’t be.  If your teen gets expelled from a Military School, you will risk forfeiting your $20,000 to $40,000 tuition.  Remember, Military Schools are not set-up as a therapeutic setting.  They are structured, however usually do not offer the therapy or emotional growth many troubled teens may need. Learn more from our story.

Part 2 – click here. Helpful tips for finding programs to fit your needs.

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