With the tragedy of Newtown, CT we are faced with so many unanswered questions.
The grief of the loss of life is unimaginable – when you look at the age of the children and their protectors that died doing what they were trained to do, it is simply unconscionable that anyone could do such a heinous act.
We are hearing issues of gun control combined with mental health. At the end of the day, like teenagers using illegal drugs (and adults for that matter) if someone is determined to find a gun and shoot people, they will.
The fact is we need to get people the help they need before they get to the point of wanting to seek out guns for killing – or drugs for getting high.
Though that is an extreme example, many parents are seeking help for their struggling teen. They are at their wit’s end. They feel like they are hostage in their own home. After exhausting all their local resources they realize that residential treatment is their last resort – but how can they send their child away?
The real question is, how can you not? How can you not get your teen the help they need? In many cases your teen does need to be removed from their environment to be able to start recovery. Being around their negative peer group and sometimes ever around their family (and this is not a personal reflection on you) but the state of mind your child is in, can bring contention that they are not able to move forward.
So what can you do? You get online and the confusion is overwhelming with websites promising all sorts of things – marketing people scaring you into the urgency of placing asap or else….. Sticker shock of the price of getting help! Don’t get scammed – it did happen to me – I created my organization so it wouldn’t happen to other parents.
There is help for everyone. If you don’t have insurance for mental help, and even with insurance, there are programs that can help. You will have to dig harder to find them.
Obviously if you are able to go into a program you can finance there are more options, but in a time in our economy when things are not financially great, not everyone falls into this category. This doesn’t mean you can’t find help.
I encourage you to visit my website – www.helpyourteens.com for more information on residential therapy. Never give up – be proactive. Now, more than ever, is a reality that parents need to get their troubled teens the help they need.